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Anne and Bucky
Sunday, November 11, 2012
Monday, October 29, 2012
Christmas Parties
When we would come to visit around the holidays, often we would get to take Anne to her Special Olympics or Advo Christmas parties. These were always a big party and lots of fun for everyone. They were certainly one of the highlights of the year for Anne. All her friends were there. There was food. There was music and dancing. And best of all, there was Santa. We all remember that Anne never gave up believing in Santa, even when she was 30 years old. That was the same with all her friends. When Santa would come in the room, the crowd would go wild and everyone would immediately line up to tell Santa what they wanted for Christmas. Anne would always get in line and tell Santa what she wanted while sitting on his lap! It was always funny because Mom would have a hard time figuring out what to get Anne for Christmas but Anne wouldn’t tell mom because “Santa already knew.” One time Mom tried to tell Anne that Santa wasn’t real, and that Mom was the real Santa. Anne responded indignantly, “You are NOT Santa! Do you have rosy red cheeks? Do you live at the North Pole? Do you have a white beard? Do you have a belly that jiggles like a bowl full of jelly? I don’t think so!” That pretty much settled it in her mind.
Of the many parties I attended, there are a couple of memories that stick out in my mind.
Once, after Jennifer and I had just gotten married, we were all at the Special Olympics Christmas party and when the music came on, we all started dancing. One of Anne’s friends asked me to dance. I can’t remember exactly who it was, but this particular girl who had a crush on me and always told Anne about it. While we were dancing, Anne followed us out on the dance floor to keep an eye on us. She was very concerned that this girl was going to lure me away from my new bride. Towards the end of the song, Anne decided she’d had enough, so she leaned over and told her friend, “He’s taken!” while pointing to my wedding ring. With that, Anne rested her case. She was always very protective of those closest to her and this was a perfect example of it.
Another time, we went to the Advo Christmas party. I had just arrived in town and everyone else had a long week, so just Anne and I went to the party. She was so proud that I came with her, as soon as we walked in the door, she yelled out, “We’re here! This is my brother Scott. He lives in Fort Worth.” The party was already going and it was so loud that nobody really heard us but Anne didn’t notice. The rest of the night, Anne repeated the introduction to everyone we saw, whether they were listening or not. She made me feel like a celebrity, and we had a great time.
Cats
As everyone knows, Anne LOVED cats so we had several over the years. Anne loved to run through all the names of all the cats she ever had. I thought I would write down some of the cat names while I could remember them (in no particular order):
1. Bucky
2. Tabby
3. Snowball
4. George Strait
5. George Strait 2.0
6. Mittens
7. Symba
8. Nolla
9. Spicy
10. Spicy
11. Spicy
12. Spicy
13. Spicy Five
14. Dog
15. Tibet
16. Tigger
17. Maggie
Anne always took great care of her cats. She fed and watered them every day, played with them in her room, slept with them, let them in and out, etc. She also always wanted to take them to the vet to get shots or “doctored for ticks.” It didn’t matter when they last went, the cats were always due for a trip to the vet.
One time she told me that she had a cat that weighed 60 lbs. She knew this to be the truth because she had weighed the cat herself on the bathroom scale. I tried to explain to her that wasn’t possible, even comparing to a 50 lb sack of animal food, but it was futile. You couldn’t reason with her. She insisted that her cat weighed 60 lbs. So finally I asked her to prove it to me. She took me into the bathroom where the scale was and showed me the cat weighing procedure. Anne grabbed the cat and put it on the scale. The cat was squirming and struggling to get away, but Anne persisted. She pushed down on that cat with all her strength, and sure enough, when the number popped up, the scale said 60 lbs! Anne was right, sort of.
Tuesday, October 16, 2012
Leftovers
When I became a part of the family I quickly learned two things that were important to Anne: Scott and food. She loved it when we came to visit and she got to see her brother. Kelly would always have lots of good food for us while we were there. This meant there were always leftovers! On the day we would leave, Kelly would (and still does) pack us a sack full of leftovers to take with us on the trip back to Fort Worth. Anne did not like this. As soon as she realized what was going on, she let us know she wasn’t happy…”Why is everyone taking my food?” “What am I suppose to take to work?” “I never get to eat what I want.” etc.
In the early years, I could say, “I’m sorry Anne, but do you mind if I take the food?” She would put on her polite face and agree to let the new sister-in-law take all her leftovers. But as time went on and I was around more and more, the politeness wore off. I was treated like all other members of the family. I remember one time when I asked her the same question about taking her food years later, she looked at me (from around the open refrigerator door) and gave me the same earful she gave everyone else!
Miss you Anne.
Love,
Jennifer-wennifer
Friday, October 5, 2012
AnnieBeth
Thursday, September 6, 2012
A Lesson in Generosity
Okay, a little background now. After Anne's surgery she was wanting cheesecake. We had a whole cheesecake from a bakery in Waxahachie (I think) that we had been eating on and it was gone. Early on, cheesecake was listed on the hospital menu that comes with the tray. Anne selected cheesecake that day. The next day cheesecake was not listed on the menu that came with the hospital tray. Anne talked the woman who delivered the food trays into bringing her cheesecake for dessert every day, whether it was an option on the menu or not. From that day on Anne had her cheesecake for dessert every day and enjoyed every bite of it. Anne knew it was a special treat just for her. If we commented on her cheesecake, she would do a combination "O" face, smile and raise her eyebrows...She loved being special.
Back to Rebecca's visit during Anne's lunch that day 7 years ago. The elderly woman looked over at Anne's tray and said something to the effect of "how did you get that cheesecake?", she had a cookie or something on her tray. Without missing a beat Anne said "Here, you can have it." and she handed her prized cheesecake over to the woman.
Rebecca said it was one of the sweetest things she has ever seen. That's our girl.....
Sunday, August 12, 2012
Girl in Charge
When I would arrive home I would take a hot bath that night. Like clockwork, Anne would pull the wicker stool over to the bath tub, plop down on it and begin a diatribe of what had happened while she was in charge. I would listen and praise her on what a great job she had done and would tell her it was a good thing she was here or who knew what might have happened. And like clockwork, Anne would cock her head to the side just a little, nod and make the "O" face.
Friday, July 20, 2012
Visiting Canyon
Every time we would visit Canyon, Anne would be very excited leading up to our visit. She would call and ask when we were coming every day for sometimes 2-3 weeks before we were scheduled to visit. Then on the way, she would call us in the car about every hour while we were driving to check on us and see where we were. You could tell by the sound in her voice how excited she was. Sometimes, if we were driving late, she would go on and on about how she was waiting up for us and wasn’t going to sleep until we got there. Then, never fail, as soon as we would pull up in the driveway but before we made it in the house, she would head back to her room and shut the door. She would act like she was too busy to come say hi. We would eventually go back to her room and she would be shuffling CDs or stringing beads, never anything very urgent, usually sporting her “O” face. Priceless
Saturday, July 7, 2012
Bucky
This is not about the cat that is part possum. This is a different Bucky. In 2008 when we went to Nashville, Bucky Covington had a few hits on the radio and was pretty popular. While we were waiting in line for autographs in the FanFair convention center, Bucky came in and was headed to his booth. We saw him walking within earshot and told Anne that he was nearby. All of a sudden, she starts calling him like she called her cat named Bucky. “Buuuuuuuckkeeeeeeeeeeee!! Here Bucky Bucky Bucky Bucky” I think she might have even thrown a few meows in there. I don’t remember if he heard her or not, we were too busy laughing. Regardless, she made it up there to get his autograph and a picture with him. Success.
Walking the Pigs
When Anne was in high school, she was a member of FFA – Future Farmers of America. She had a purple jacket and went around all the time saying something about “Gold, Corn Gold!” She raised pigs and showed them at the livestock show. I think she did this for about 3-4 years. As part of her duties, she had to walk them to make sure they would get exercise. Every day after school, she would come home, get her pig stick and head out the back door to walk the pigs. We had a big open field next to our house. She was supposed to walk them out in that field to the end and back. There were two things that could potentially go wrong each day. First, the pigs could get on the road and get run over. Second, they could get in the pen with the horses and get kicked. On an average day, Anne was quite sure that both of these things were going to happen and that would be the end of her pigs. Walking the pigs was a very dangerous but exciting proposition. She would head out the back door, and then about five minutes later (like clockwork) she would come running back to the house screaming frantically that the “pigs are on the road!! the pigs are on the road!!!” If we didn’t take the situation seriously enough by immediately getting up to help her, she would threaten us by saying, “You don’t give a crap!! You just want them to get killed!!!” We would go out there and the pigs would be out by the barn, just grazing, about 50 yards from the road. They must have taken a couple of steps in the direction of the road and that was enough to get Anne excited. She liked the drama of it. Either way, it was always very entertaining each day to see what kind of trouble she would get in with her pigs. It kept Anne entertained, the pigs got exercise, Anne got exercise, and we could count on a few good laughs.
Thursday, July 5, 2012
basket ball
coke
Who's Your Main Man
Hospital
Wednesday, July 4, 2012
Snack Time
The kids just woke up from their nap and it is now snack time, one of Anne’s favorite times of day. A couple of things we would normally hear around snack time:
“Is this a snack or a meal?” She had to get the rules straight before starting. She wasn’t about to waste a entire meal on an apple.
Or she would see someone else eating and say “they are making me hungry.” It didn’t matter if she just had a snack or a full meal, if someone else was eating, Anne should be eating too.
Name Change
Anne decided that she wanted to change her name from Anne Elizabeth Hubley to Anne Elizabeth Annie Beth Hubley. Agreeing to her request was not sufficient because Anne somehow knew it was a legal matter and that an attorney was required. She was relentless in her pursuit of a legal name change and even offered up the services of her brother-in-law, "Will Whitaker the attorney", a fact that she was very proud of. I don't know how many times we heard Anne say " Will Whitaker can do it, he's an attorney." Side note: Anne never said lawyer:)
Over the years, Anne never relented on the name change and it was ever present at our many doctor appointments. We saw Anne's neurologist, Dr. Milligan, every month for six years as part of the protocol of the FDA study that Anne was enrolled in. Everyone at the clinic knew Anne very well and would greet her by name. She would very confidently officially check-in, because that's what you do, and say "I'm Anne Elizabeth Annie Beth Hubley and I'm going to see Dr. Milligan."
When Anne was hospitalized and the nurses, lab techs, radiologist, physicians, etc. would check her arm bracelet and then ask her her name prior to any procedure she would always say " Anne Elizabeth Annie Beth Hubley". If they asked her if she was Anne Hubley she would respond "I'm Anne Elizabeth Annie Beth Hubley." Anne was a frequent patient at Baptist St. Anthony hospital and the staff adored her. Even if Anne was not their patient, they would stop by to say hi to her. These small gestures made us feel so supported and loved. In fact, during Anne's last hospital stay doctor's not even on her case came to see her.
I miss you so much Anne Elizabeth Annie Beth Hubley.
Mom
Calendar
Doctor appointments, out of town trips, Special Olympics activities, etc. One weekend when I was visiting she wanted to go to a Special Olympics bowling tournamment..Kelly said No , Will has a tennis tournament and Anne replied I don't know why we are going, he won't even move his feet. Of course saying No did not keep her from repeatedly continuing to ask. Special Olympics was a wonderful activity..basket ball, bowling, a wonderful circle of friends and many activities. We all miss you so much. Mama Jo
Things Anne Liked
This is a list we collected a while back and the blog seemed like a good place to store it.
1. Cats
2. Dance parties
3. Barn dances
4. Racing in the car
5. Pigs
6. Cattle trucks
7. Food
8. Making cookies
9. Feeding cats
10. Routines
11. Country music
12. CDs
13. Electronics
14. Being like her mom
15. Cowgirl stuff
16. Being part of the gang
17. Friends
18. Family
19. Mickey mouse
20. Money
21. Cords
22. Michael Jackson
23. Her backpack
24. Trapper keeper
25. Sudoku puzzles
26. Cokes
27. "Sony" waters
28. Going to the casino
29. Popcorn and coke at the movies
30. Concerts
31. Fan clubs
32. Tour buses
33. Cattle trucks
34. Helping will with his math
35. Providing entertainment
36. Her room
37. Autographs
38. Rearranging furniture
39. Cooking
40. Birthdays
41. Calendars
42. Any celebration
43. Santa
44. Easter bunny
45. Any animals
46. Getting her cats doctored at the vet for ticks
47. Snacks
48. Being the authority
49. Having friends over
50. Printers and copiers
51. Coming to fort worth
52. Sweet tea
53. Nalgene water bottles
54. Walmart
55. Grocery shopping
56. Chickens
57. Showing pigs
58. Inside jokes
59. Singing along to songs in the car
60. Karaoke
61. Talking about girl stuff
62. Finger lights
63. The weather
64. Weather radios
65. Law and order
66. Wheel of fortune
67. DVDs
68. DVRs
69. VHS tapes
70. CD cases
71. UNO
72. Dominoes
73. T-shirts with her picture on them
74. Tupperware
75. Leftovers
76. Making popcorn
77. Sister fights
78. Country music magazines
79. Gift cards
80. Wallets
81. Talking on the phone
82. Having a cell phone
83. Headphones
84. Macaroni and cheese
85. Succeeding
86. Attention
87. Drama
88. Disney world
89. Movies
90. Special Olympics
91. Going to Devers
92. Bowling
93. Track
94. Basketball
95. Being an aunt
96. Kids
97. Babysitting
98. Vouchers
99. Country music t-shirts
100. April Fools Jokes
101. Going to the sale barn
102. Looking at the cows
103. Talking to “Chub” aka Scott
104. Watching someone cook
105. Being sung to on her birthday
106. Playing dominos
107. Talking on the phone
108. Everyone laughing
109. Being the D.J
110. Her Mom
111. Birthdays (hers in particular!)
112. Beads!
113. Doing anything with her dad
114. The Beach Boys
115. Home Alone
116. That Peter Rabbit Video that we had to hide
117. Chicken spaghetti
118. Picking on her siblings (ie: "Scott can't even keep a girlfriend", etc.)
119. Gift Cards
120. Hastings
121. Talking about JJ and her friends
122. Thoroughness--Burning CD Backups
123. Telling her news
124. Competing
125. Saving
126. Shopping
127. Being the Big Sister / Being the oldest
128. Saying, "Booty Call" & "So anyways"
129. The "Woo" song by Phillips, Craig & Dean
130. Watching a couple dance to a slow country song. something in her liked a good romance
131. Defending Will
132. Cleaning Will's room for him
133. Spending time with Rebecca
134. Recording Mom's favorite shows on her TV to get mom to talk about all her wonderful entertainment
135. Her 5 disc CD player
136. Batteries
137. Tuesday's at Walmart when new CD's "hit the stores"
138. Litters upon litters of kittens born in her closet
139. Riding the school bus
140. The pig barn
141. Showing pigs
142. Competing
143. Arranging and rearranging her cd's
144. Making beads for loved ones
145. Getting worked on by Uncle Bill
146. Paychecks
147. Vouchers
148. Being a " working girl" and getting a tea on the way home from work
149. Piggy Banks
150. Money in her billfold
151. Lending Brett and Will money
152. Dancing with Brett
153. Jamming in the car with Brett
154. Brett watching tv in her room
155. www.anything
156. Power cords
157. Important papers
158. Getting chocolate in the mail from Sally
159. Telling her stories of "almost being hit"
160. FanFair
161. Concerts
162. Cheesecake
163. Orange juice
164. Talking to Scott on the phone
165. Knowing she was loved
166. Being the prettiest girl in the world
167. Being the smartest girl in the world
168. Babying William
169. Bossing Hannah ( counting to 3)
170. Holding Scott's babies
171. Copy paper
172. Notepads
173. Pens
174. Going to the barn with Brett
175. Gathering eggs with Brett
176. Making coffee in the morning for us
177. shopping with Rebecca
178. CD scratcher remover
179. Jana
180. Rachel
181. Walmart
182. Going to the grocery store with Brett
183. El Tejavan
184. Family functions
185. Graduating with Rebecca
186. Watching Will play tennis
187. Helping mom and Brett sell their drugs
188. "mama's little helper and Brett's little helper"
189. Will Whitaker being an attorney
190. Packages in the mail
191. Mail
192. The Macarena
193. The Electric Slide
194. YMCA
195. Trips
196. Blackjack
197. Sunroofs
198. Her air popcorn maker
199. Prom with JJ
200. ADVO Christmas party with Kenny
201. Looking for spicy five
202. Feed Yards
203. Pink
204. Organizing the presents under the Christmas tree
205. Being a senior
206. Daddy Daughter dates
207. Off campus lunches at taco bell
208. Getting notes for school
209. Getting money from the bank
210. Cashing in the change from her piggy bank
211. Being rich
212. Sunglasses
213. Cowboy boots
214. Lane ropes
215. Posing for pictures
216. Hospital trays
217. Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny
218. Sharing the latest news
219. Good Salad and Pizza at CiCi’s
220. Jewel’s Cooking
221. Bucky Cat’s Possum Tail
222. Road Trips
223. Purple backpack full of CD’s
224. Road trips
225. Talking about Kenny’s other girlfriends
226. Ag Teacher - Mr Wentworth
227. Showing Pigs
228. Planning a visit
229. Making a proposition
230. Telling her dad to keep on working and save all his vacation
231. Saying “Get this one” and “If you are willing”
232. Telling about her Doctor visit schedule
233. Giggling with her sisters
234. Whitaker the Lawyer
235. Cousin the Fence Builder
236. Kolby the Engineer
237. Her brother
238. Special Olympics
239. Getting Rubbed
240. Jewels
241. Aunt Donna
242. Aunt Cheryl
243. Brittany
244. Aunt Mae
245. Granny and PaPa
246. MaMaw
247. Nana Kinsolving
248. Telling you how much money you had
249. Cousin Jennifer
250. Her Billfold
251. Jam Sessions
252. Euphemisms - Jack-a-Rabbit, How does a cat go? Mrrrhow
253. Sitting at the Domino Table through a good game of 42
254. Fan fair
255. Tracking folks on a visit
256. CD Player
257. Country Music Awards
258. Holding a Pup
259. Blue Dog
260. Penny
261. Blowing out Candles on her BD Cake
262. Remembering Everyone’s BD
263. Going to Walmart and Hastings
264. Looking at her CD’s
265. Telling a good Story
266. Just hangin out
267. Uncle Willie
268. Uncle James
269. Uncle Danny
270. Having a job
271. Worming cows
272. Dr. Milligan
273. "Saving" her birthday coke
274. Outings
275. Knowing it was the time change weekend – “set your clocks”
276. Extra blankets on the bed
277. Crinkling bottled waters when she was through
278. Filling up her mugs with ice
279. Empty boxes
280. Lunchboxes (the bigger, the better)
281. Hospital trays
282. Posing for pictures
283. Pinching on St. Patricks day
284. carrying her all cds each time she left the house
285. The Murphy girls
286. Aunt Nancy coming to help
287. Aunt Nancy sending packages
288. Aunt Sally calling Bill her " house slave boy"
289. “Fun Parties”
290. Miss America pageants and rooting for Miss Texas
Independence Day
We all know Anne loved holidays. One of our favorite memories of her was Jennifer’s first trip to Canyon on the 4th of July. She was sleeping in William’s room, across the hall from Anne. Bright and early the morning of the 4th, Anne started blasting music from from her room. She was playing Independence Day by Martina McBride and it was LOUD!! As soon as she turned it on, she would go barreling down the hall to make sure everyone in the house could hear the music. No holiday was complete without the theme music. Turned out to be a good wake up call for Jennifer. If you don’t remember the song, you can watch the music video here.
